I've been aware of this for many years, as has my wife. Even so, it is not easy to be serene in the face of it. Hence the 'many years'. That's how long it takes to learn the necessary skills. No shortcuts. Karma must be endured. The good news is that it is, indeed, possible to endure it.
Yes, fully agree. Karmas have to be endured happily or otherwise. Thanks The Crow.