"In an argument the best weapon to hold is your tongue."
"A woman came to a holy man and complained,"Master, I cannot take it any more! Every day there is an argument in the house and my husband end up beating me severely. You have got to help me!"
The holy man asked for a bottle of water; he blessed it and gave it to the woman.
"When do I give this water to my husband to drink?" asked the woman.
"The water is not for your husband," said the holy man."Whenever you find that an argument has started, take a sip of water from the bottle, and hold it in your mouth.
In doing so, you will not be able to answer back. There will be no argument and no beating to follow!'