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"To love is to suffer.To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers from not loving.

Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love.

To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy, one

must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness."
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'It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust'

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24 comments:

  1. It is better to suffer wrong than to do it,

    Don't u think its too idealogical..to suffer cause of wrong is also wrong

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  2. Well, it depends...
    Thanks for sharing your views.Good luck.

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  3. Hi Surjit,
    It is better to be robbed than to rob somebody!

    "Happiness is not the absence of problems but the ability to deal with them."

    This post really makes me think!
    Thanks.
    Best Wishes

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  4. "To love is to suffer.To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers from not loving."

    Life without love is like a dried dead tree...

    fareedhaa kitha(n)aee joban preeth bin suk geae kumalaae ||34||
    Fareed, so many youths, without His Love, have dried up and withered away. ||34||

    God Bless You !
    But you should know whom to love. Don't waste your energy on those who will make you suffer. Love the Supreme and you'll never suffer. There will be nothing but happiness once you love HIM

    birehaa birehaa aakheeai birehaa thoo sulathaan ||

    Many talk of the pain and suffering of separation; O pain, you are the ruler of all.
    fareedhaa jith than birahu n oopajai so than jaan masaan ||36||

    Fareed, that body, within which love of the Lord does not well up - look upon that body as a cremation ground. ||36||

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  5. Thanks SamChan, for sharing your valuable views.Good luck.

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  6. Upinder Kaur,I agree with your words of wisdom:
    ......'But you should know whom to love. Don't waste your energy on those who will make you suffer. Love the Supreme and you'll never suffer. There will be nothing but happiness once you love HIM..'

    Yes,only love with the Almighty will give us peace and real happines.
    Thanks for sharing your insightful thoughts.
    You are a well read person and have a noble mind.God bless you.

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  7. Do not seek the because - in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions.
    Anais Nin

    a nice post about the ironies of life. =)

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  8. Yes Sophiagurl,there should be no strings attached when you love a person...I agree with your views.
    Thanks for your positive contribution to my post.Good luck.

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  9. Hi Surjit...

    In the moment, loving removes suffering does it not? It is only as we contemplate the release of love or non-love that suffering comes to us.

    And, to be in the moment of continual love is to be happy.

    Surjit... if you ever are inspired, i would enjoy reading your views of the divine... how you envision God.

    Blessings to you,

    Jen

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  10. Surjit,
    I believe that loving should be pleasure, not pain.

    Not trusting may equal wisdom, depending on the circumstances...

    Nicole Brown Simpson would have been much wiser to not trust OJ --

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  11. i believe i have come to a crossroads, and if i am going to suffer for love at this juncture,, it will be in my quest to love myself...

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  12. Thanks Jennifer,for sharing your insightful views.Good luck.

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  13. Thanks Loving Annie,for sharing your valuable views.Good luck.

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  14. I agree with your views,Paisley.Thanks for sharing your insightful thoughts.Good luck.

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  15. I really enjoyed this play of life.... Most people are to jaded to love after all the heartaches, but little do they realize that they are suffering also when they do not love.

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  16. Hi Surjit!
    That was a wonderful insight about love. Love brings so much pain along with it, but still we yearn about true love, because we suffer in its absence. As they say, it is better to have loved and lost, than not to love at all! Thank you for these words of wisdom, I always enjoy your posts.Have a great week!

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  17. Yes Sharon,this is the mystery of love. I agree with your wods:...
    'they are suffering also when they do not love..'
    Thanks for sharing your valuable views.

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  18. Priyanka,I appreciate your insightful words:
    ....'Love brings so much pain along with it, but still we yearn about true love...'
    Thanks for your valuable comments.Good luck.

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  19. Surjit: thanx for the visit on my blog...
    U have a very sweet blog n sweet as in extremely sweet...
    The abstractions that u are taking abt,speciofically in this post, ummmmmmmm i think,taking a subjective overview of the things will give a clearer picture.idealism sounds too good but practice........

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  20. I am grateful to you, Deepti for your nice words about my blog.I admire your 'objective' views...'idealism sounds too good but practice........'
    My best wishes to you.

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  21. Once again dear surjit you have touched my very inner being. Between you and Jennifer I do believe I am finding what I had lost. Thank you so very much for helping me find the correct road again. I am honest enough to say that I am still struggling. But, the struggle lessons everyday. I wll get there. I participated in yet 2 more meme's since your last peek in...I do so hope you return.

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  22. Thanks Moondanzer, for your nice and kind words.I don't feel I have done anything worth while.
    You are an enlightened person your self.Your posts on your blog are witness to this fact.
    My best wishes to you.
    Thanks once again for giving me this honour.

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  23. I think the biggest problem is falling in love with something or someone because of what you initially know about that person or thing... the more you know, the harder it is to stay in love, at least in some cases. :)

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  24. ...Yes Shilpa,I agree with your words:...
    the more you know, the harder it is to stay in love, at least in some cases....'
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts.My best wishes.

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